Threesome Secrets - Attraction Is Not Required...

Threesome Secrets - David De Angelo, author of Double Your Dating says that: "Attraction is not an option." If you learn how to become interesting, you'll always be successful seducing women for one-on-one sex.

For threesome pickups, attraction on her side is not the main issue, simply because in most pickup situations the target will be at meeting time unaware that she's been "hit on"; that's why it's easier to strike a conversation with her. This is CRITICAL to keep in mind because as she does not feel she's been hit on, she WILL NOT - and mind my words - WILL NOT reject you!!!

Threesome Secrets Note: 99% of the time she will be open to talk to both of you!!!
What are the odds of that happening on a one-on-one pickup?

Threesome Secrets - Calibration...

Threesome Secrets - Calibration...

Building instant rapport, as everything in life, requires practice. That's why you need to calibrate as much as possible how good you are doing...

Calibration is continuously checking in with what you are doing and saying, and who you are being, and asking yourself, "How's it going?", "What is working and what needs to change?"

Sometimes you'll feel rapport slipping away, regardless of what you're doing. At times like this, STOP whatever it is you're doing and try something else.

Ask checking questions to determine where you are with this person, so you can get the information you need to recalibrate.

Using the example of the babe with the sunglasses, we've been doing great helping her with the sunglasses. Instant rapport is there, but we still need to build deeper rapport with her before we can proceed to the next step in the pickup process...

Suddenly we start noticing that we are loosing rapport...she seems to be slipping away, so we quickly change our approach and ask then: "What do you think of this glasses? Do they look o.k. on my wife/myself?" and then you pick it up from there. The idea is to always keep on building further rapport with her. That's why Calibration is important

Karl, my hubby, is a master rapport builder; he approaches girls and they end up telling him their life stories and fall in love with him instantly.

I've watched him approach girls and within minutes they'll open up completely to him. I've learned most about rapport building from him because he's truly a natural.

He could really feel people out and even get clues about their personality and background just from looking at them.

His skills are truly amazing! According to him, the biggest secret to becoming a master in the art of building rapport is simply to pay attention!

I agree with him 100%. People give you so many non-verbal clues, that you're doing yourself a disservice by ignoring them.

Become a master observer:

• How are they dressed?
  
• What is their posture?
  
• Do they make eye contact?
  
• How do they react to their environment and other people?
  

In other words, pace this person. Put yourself in their skin and try to understand where they are coming from. Develop your intuition!

Besides rapport building, another critical skill you need to build is conversation skills. Every once in a while I get e-mails from people telling me: "Suzy, your advice is great, but I am not the 'outgoing type'; I'm the 'shy type'. What can I do to approach people without feeling shy?"

In my eyes, people are shy when they do not know exactly what to say or how to say it. As you can imagine, I am not the "shy type", so for me answering this question might be a bit awkward.

I'm aware there's plenty of material out there on how to be a conversationalist. My favourite resource is a book called Conversation of Seduction Science.

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